Lessons

I learnt a precious lesson from someone today. "How to treat frds fairly" I think i m juz naive all along. To let myself think that the world has hope. But the higher u have in ur hopes the harder u fell.

I know that u r in the middle n was in a difficult position so i dun try to makes things hard. Yes i did i said that i was going to take a nap but i didnt say i will msg anyone when i wake up. Cuz someone already say that she will msg me when done. Ok...i gues they will never be "done" in one or another way. In the natural order of cuz it better for 2 girls to go out together when its come to frienship. If u r stuck in the middle then have tots then its ok that i had misunderstood. But... i rememeber that someone was saying"since i was meeting her u should know that i will not be in the group". Yea of cuz the hell i know this theory. But how do i know that u set piority in another different way. Wanted me to voice out anything i feel unhappy with. But if the other party didnt do so. How is the matter gonna to be settled. I somehow think u realised it, but when it comes to rejecting pple u also dun dare to do so. Thats y it was dragged n end up with quarrels. I wa not trying to say that it was 100% ur fault. I m a human i will not be 100% perfect too. Quarrel is like clapping hands. U need both parties to do it. Many pple have their own theories in life. Mayb to u its ok or should i say its right for u to juz keep quiet when u met something u dun know what to do or u dun intend to do. But the way u put ur words is like since u already met her then i should know that u will not be meeting me anymore.

I finally get it what zhenyi is trying to tell me. Piority....... Frm today onwards i really had to learn how to set piorities the way u do it. Even to the very last minute of an appointment. If a higher piority person juz appear, the lower ones will have to step aside. N most impt is they dun really have the rights to know anything. Juz keep quiet or juz act blur over it. If only im a computer then i will know everything in the world n dun need to assume. But sorry i m a human too.

Last but not least..... If there is no quarrels in a friendship then i think that friendship is a fake. No relationships r perfect without any scratch or marks. Y do people need to quarrel??? Not to make the other side unhappy or angry. The fact is quarrels makes every relationship stronger n better. Becuz thru quarrels u get to know each other more. U will know what the other parties think individually. And by realising the prob, the same issues will be better to handle if it really happens again. Now that i know how someone feels about coming to handling piority. If next time this time happen n if anyone more impt asked u out i will understand n not get angry. But the least inform me earlier. I will do my part n as for u ...... u have ur own rights. U wanna do it or not its up to u. The brain is ur and decisions r up to u to make.

Above mention r purely based on my theories. If anyone disagree with that pls jolly well read n forget. Like i said...im a human too my theories might not be correct too.